Many people have a strong attachment to their home, and for good reason. Our homes are not simply places filled with stuff. They are filled with memories as well. Your home is a place for rest and relaxation. It influences your mood as well as stress and motivation levels.
We have the ability to create our homes as we see fit. Painting, lighting furniture, and decoration all play a role in this. So after a divorce, it can be hard to feel connected to your home again, especially if it reminds you of your marriage. It may be time to update your home accordingly to help you feel relaxed and ready to move on from a bad marriage.
Here are some ways to feel at home in your new space, whether you’re keeping the marital home or renting a new space.
You don’t need to hold onto old possessions that remind you of the past. Get rid of wedding photos, old furniture, and remnants of your spouse. These items can make you reminisce about the past, which you don’t want to do. You want to focus on the future.
Go on a shopping spree and buy items that fit your current space and mood. Need to downsize? Get smaller furniture and learn to live with less. It can be freeing!
Don’t delay the process. If you’re moving, unpack all the boxes quickly and get everything set up as soon as possible. Within the first couple weeks, get the furniture and appliances you need. Get everything into its place. It’ll be a sense of accomplishment. Plus, it will give you some stability in your life after a possibly messy divorce.
If you’re moving from the marital home, you’ll want to develop a sense of community. Connect with the space outside your home by getting to know your neighbors. Join clubs in the area. Volunteer at the local food bank or your child’s school. Getting to know the area and those around it will help you develop a sense of permanency.
Don’t want to connect with people just yet? Then start with nature. Plants and animals can nurture your spirit and improve your mood following a divorce. They also provide health benefits, such as lowering heart rate and blood pressure. If a pet is too much responsibility, get some houseplants or grow a small garden.
After a divorce, don’t be afraid to make changes to your living space. This may mean purging old possessions and updating the decoration. Make your house a cozy space!
After a divorce, a lot of changes need to be made in your life. The Columbia divorce lawyers at the Law Offices of Todd K. Mohink, P.A. can help you move on from your marriage. He has resources to help you succeed in your post-divorce life. To schedule a consultation, fill out the online form or call (410) 774-5987. We have two offices to serve you.
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Glen Burnie, MD 21061
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Columbia, MD 21044